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It usually happens that lack of self-confidence interferes our goals and makes it difficult to achieve them. In business, personal life, education and public activity confident people are more successful than those who don't believe in their power.

Here are some ways to develop confidence inside yourself:

1. The clothes you wear influence your mood essentially. And if you pay enough attention to your dressing, you can change yourself inside. Don't take this advice as buying the most expensive things in stores. It' would be more rationally to buy less and more qualitative.

2. Walk fast
Your speed of walking characterizes you in person. If your weak in confidence, increase your walking speed. One who walks slowly shows to others his indecision and fear.

3. Choose an advertising for yourself
Imagine you're a product that needs advertising. Find your strong traits that others don't have. When a bad moment comes, remember about your best qualities. It will give you confidence and will avoid desperation.

4. Thank the life
Remember more often the best moments in your life. Just think how many opportunities the fate offers you.

5. Make complements
When you make complements, you receive pleasure yourself. Don't be shy to outpoint the new car, jeans, house bought by your friends/relatives.

6. Sit in the first row.
Many want to stay in the back rows (at classes, theater, presentations etc.). This is determined by the inside fear of being noticed. Fight this feeling and try to be in the center of attention.

7. Make speeches
There is no better recipe for advancing your confidence than making public speeches. Don't avoid them if you have the opportunity. Always be a volunteer and take the word during presentations, meetings etc. Become a member of an oratorical club.