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Bandit · Posted: 03 May 2008 i need help:) i'm shy

I like this guy, but the problem is he's my brother's friend and i mean we say hi in the hallway but i am like really nervous to start a convo with him because i'm worried that he will think i'm stupid or something.

I don't know how to talk to him and i'm scared that he might tell my brother then i will get in trobule so should i just move on?

xXx · Posted: 03 May 2008

The universal way to stirke up a cronversation with *anyone* is humor. Don't go telling jokes or anything, but if you can get in a situation were you can make him ro people near him laugh, then you have his respect, if not admiration. Try it!
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prozac7674 · Posted: 03 May 2008

youre just afraid of rejection. however, he might tell his brother and it might feel funny, but the truth of the matter is, what have you got to lose? so what if you get rejected, but if you don't, you'll be that much more ahead.

and starting up a converstation? it will depend on the situation, but simply by saying hi occasional, he won't think any differently of you. he already knows your brother so that actually might help the situation. start by talking to your brother about it and see what he has to say. froot

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Vertihvostka · Posted: 04 May 2008

Ask your brother if he's attached, thats more impt than anything else

=)

if he's avaliable, ask him out on a date. guys are usually accomodative

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Bill Mortensen · Posted: 04 May 2008

People starting conversations is a pretty damn natural thing and you will not get into trouble for talking.
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tulaka · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 03 Sep 2008 Posts: 216

why you think he'll consider you stupid if you say hi to him? In this case, he'll be the one who's really stupid.

Elis · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 03 Sep 2008 Posts: 250

If you really like him, just give it a shot, it's not a big deal you know. It is your private life, not your brother’s.

Maximus · Paris forums Member Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 175

if he's your brother friend, it will only make it more simple. Dare! Otherwise you will achieve nothing.

tulaka · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 03 Sep 2008 Posts: 216

I don't get the point. What's wrong if he tells your brother? What will happen to you then?

Cold_as_ice · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 222

I understand you. There are families where brothers are like fathers. So he must really care about his sister.

Planetman · Paris forums Member Joined: 04 Sep 2008 Posts: 187

Well those people exaggerate their mission then.

Maximus · Paris forums Member Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 175

Brothers shouldn't interfere their sisters' life. But if they do, let them answer the question: "Would they like their sisters to interfere their lives?"

Elis · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 03 Sep 2008 Posts: 250

Well they will always say that we, girls need protection

Cold_as_ice · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 222

today, actually there are quite independent girls and I would say quite strong girls that need no protection from men, I mean they can even defend a man from somebody else. Smile

That's true, on my own experience.

Planetman · Paris forums Member Joined: 04 Sep 2008 Posts: 187

So you're a fighter, CAI?

Cold_as_ice · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 05 Sep 2008 Posts: 222

I'm not. But it happened once that I had to save a guy who was beat by other men. He thanked me later.

Elis · Paris Forums Frequenter Joined: 03 Sep 2008 Posts: 250

Then, you're brave for sure